Hari Hari Gue… :)

      If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
      If  he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

      Stop making excuses for a  man and his behavior.
      Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from  heartache.
      Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not  meant
      to be.

      Slower is better.
      Never live your life for a man  before you find what makes you truly
      happy.

      If a relationship ends because  the man was not treating you as you
      deserve then heck no, you can’t "be  friends".
      A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

      Don’t settle.
      If you feel  like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

      Don’t  stay because you think "it will get better."
      You’ll be mad at yourself a year  later for staying when things are
      not better.
      The only person you can  control in a relationship is you.

      Always have your own set of friends  separate from his.

      Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
      If  something bothers you, speak up.

      Never let a man know everything.
      He will  use it against you later.

      You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes  from within.

      Don’t EVER make him feel he is more  important than you are…
      even if he has more education or in a better job.
      Do  not make him into a quasi-god.
      He is a man, nothing more nothing  less.

      Never let a man define who you are.

      Never borrow someone else’s  man.
      If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

      A man will only treat you  the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
      All men are NOT dogs.

      You should not  be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two
      way street.

      You need  time to heal between relationships…
      there is nothing cute about baggage…
      deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

      You should never  look for someone to COMPLETE you…
      a relationship consists of two WHOLE  individuals.
      Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

      Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t  turn out to be Mr. Right.
      Make him miss you sometimes…
      when a man always  know where you are, and you’re always readily
      available to him - he takes it  for granted.

      Never move into his mother’s house.

      Never co-sign for a man.

      Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you
      need.
      Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

      Share this with other women and  men (just so they know)…
      You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her  choices, and another
      woman prepare.
      They say it takes a minute to find a  special person…
      an hour to appreciate them…
      a day to love them…
      and an entire  lifetime to forget them…